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Q: 14/f
lately, ive been having a few bad days.ive been threw alottt but im just really having trouble with my weight and consceince. im in cheerleading and i weigh around 118 (5'3). Im not fat, im musclaur, but not even like big. I just started to fly again and i am so upset because i cant do what i "could" do. if anyone has or is in cheerleading they know how stressful flying is and i am always watching my wieght so i won't be to heavy. people always joke about my weigh and flying because im the bigest flyer on the team and the oldest girl practially, and my best friends lift me so we joke around alot. but everyday i look at the scale atleast 5 times, if it says over 120 i want to cry, if it says under i am satisfied for a little while. I couldnt ever have an eating disorder because i love food to much. i love being in the sports i am in because its lest time to eat and i am never hungry when i work. but still at cheerleading i feel so fat and just feel horrible because im heavy. i try to run everyday but i never find myself dedicating myself. i hate the way my stomach is (its super musclar at the top but i look pregnant sometimes, like a huge glob of fat by my belly botton) and no matter how many situps i do, it never dgoes away. and i just want to not feel like a fatass. i need a drive to be dedicated to, and there just is none. i just get so stressed, i dont know what to do anymore.
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Honey, I understand it's hard. But let me tell you, honestly, you are totally average. I'm 5 4 and I wish I weighed your weight. I'm not overweight or anything, but I'd kill to be at the same weight as you. I used to be so self-conscious, and I [still] go on fad diets all the time. They don't work. We seem to have somewhat of the same body type, no worries there. Don't take what other people take so personally. You're doing everything you can do, just don't be so hard on yourself. How do I know this, right? Because I was once obsessed with my weight. You're doing ultimately the best you can do, and stick with that. Because you don't want to end up with an eating disorder. Trust me, it isn't worth it.
Jess♥
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thanks it made me smile, i love your advice column
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Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
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I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.
add me on myspace!
www.myspace.com/itskittybitchx
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Gender: Female AIM: Member Since: August 1, 2005 Answers: 750 Last Update: January 1, 2009 Visitors: 45625
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