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First off that's my special man friend with me way back from high school, and been dating now for almost four years now. Yeah he's pretty spectacular, and I love him to pieces, and that's all I have to say about that. I'm a full time college student and working on my gen ed, but I would like to get my bachelor's in gerontology and eventually get my nursing license. In fact I work at a nursing home now as a CNA and I love it so much. Anyways ask questions if you want. I'll try to help you out anyway I can. I love helping people after all. :)
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im not a lesbian, so dont say that i am. i like guys, i've had boyfriends and kissed guys. i wouldnt ever kiss or do anything sexual with another girl. not that there is anything wrong with being a lesbian. the thing is like whenever i hear the word lesbian,it just like gets stuck in my mind and plays in my mind over and over. its really bothering me and i want to know a way so this echo in my head will go away and. please help.
Look girl. There is nothing wrong with you. Everybody at at least one point in their life becomes curious about the same sex, even if they dont want to admit it. Probaly has to do with what the media is doing drilling it in your head that people who are different are evil and all of them are sinners and they must all die. You are perfectly normal and their is nothing wrong with you. My current boyfriend and I talk about this kind of stuff all the time. Even he told me he's been bicurious before, which doesnt even mean your bi. It just means your curious. Probaly with all the stuff on the news is probaly what the reason why you have this hooked in your head. Maybe kids at your school talk about it, I dont know but one thing I do know is, you are fine and their is nothing wrong. If you start thinking about this kind of stuff again, just remember that everyone goes through it, even if they dont want to admit it. Heck it's a normal human speices way to think of stuff like that. It would be weird if you never had.
(Rating: 5) thanks so much, you really cleared it up for me.