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this is bothering me
female
im not a lesbian, so dont say that i am. i like guys, i've had boyfriends and kissed guys. i wouldnt ever kiss or do anything sexual with another girl. not that there is anything wrong with being a lesbian. the thing is like whenever i hear the word lesbian,it just like gets stuck in my mind and plays in my mind over and over. its really bothering me and i want to know a way so this echo in my head will go away and. please help.
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Look girl. There is nothing wrong with you. Everybody at at least one point in their life becomes curious about the same sex, even if they dont want to admit it. Probaly has to do with what the media is doing drilling it in your head that people who are different are evil and all of them are sinners and they must all die. You are perfectly normal and their is nothing wrong with you. My current boyfriend and I talk about this kind of stuff all the time. Even he told me he's been bicurious before, which doesnt even mean your bi. It just means your curious. Probaly with all the stuff on the news is probaly what the reason why you have this hooked in your head. Maybe kids at your school talk about it, I dont know but one thing I do know is, you are fine and their is nothing wrong. If you start thinking about this kind of stuff again, just remember that everyone goes through it, even if they dont want to admit it. Heck it's a normal human speices way to think of stuff like that. It would be weird if you never had.
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Don't look now, but that guy over there...you have heard that before and it is sooo hard not to look, right? For some reason we become obsessed with the off limits. Has someone or something in your life made it seem like being with or around anyone who is a lesbian off limits? Deal with the issue, right about it or talk about it with someone you trust not to tell everyone everything. Maybe you are so quick to say you are not a lesbian without thinking about it first, and so you have not really dealt with it? There are some bisexuals in the world too, you know. Why would you not ever kiss a girl? Have this discussion with yourself. I am not saying you have subconscious desires to be anything, I am just telling you that unless we truly examine something before we decide on it, it will not leave us alone. There will always be a question that we were afraid to face. Maybe you want to ask yourself why about more things as you mature and find your own answers. This could be more about growing and thinking for yourself, rather than about questioning sexuality.
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