Hi I'm Laura. I'm a Christian and I am still at school. I joined the site to help people out. Quite a few of my friends come to me for help about various things and I've had quite a few problems in my life which I've sorted my own way. So I joined because if I can help my friends I can help others and I love helping people out.
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Ok well this kind of goes under friendship and love. My bestfriend met my boyfriend today but just over msn. i was scared to tell her about him because he lives in america and i live in australia. i love him alot more than anything and he loves me the same. its indescribable how much we love each other. You dont know what i would give just to hug him. Anyways i finally told her about him and i let her meet him. She told me after they finished talking that she doesnt trust long distance relationships. She said she doesnt trust him at all and that she doesnt want to talk to him again and shes just going to pretend like shes never met him.. it really upset me because me and my boyfriend are always talking about the future like how we want to spend our lives together, even kids names and she thinks that he doesnt love me. its hard for someone to understand that we love each other this much to wait for ages to see eachother..it upset him as well because he wanted to be friends with her hes waited for ages to talk to her and he doesnt want to ruin mine and her friendship. i wouldnt ruin our friendship but it took so much just to tell her and i thought she would understand.. Shes made it clear she doesnt want to no about him and shes never acted like this before.. No way i would give up my boyfriend or her but im so hurt that she doesnt like him.. ive been dating him for almost 2 months and its painful enough that i cant see him or hug him or kiss him and now my bestfriend hates him. WAT SHOULD I DO?? >.< im so upset at the moment i just need some help with wat i should do about my boyfriend and my bestfriend.. (link)
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hey!
your best friend is simply concerned for you and she is worried you'll be hurt badly by this guy if it doesn't work out.
i know how you feel, i haven't been going out with my boyfriend for long but i miss him every day even though he is at my school (he's a year older than me so i don't see him often), but when i told my best friend i fancied him she told me he was a minger and i shouldn't go out with him. i only wanted her to respect my decision.
remember that it is difficult to get to know a person through a single msn conversation and your friend probably can't understand why you're so happy about this guy when you can't see him, hug him or kiss him, even hear his voice. but you really love him and that is clear. also, your friend merely said long-distance relationships rarely work and that she doesn't trust him. you have got yourself worried and put it into your head that she hates him.
just understand her concern, and if you tell her you still love him but you understand why she is a bit wary. don't worry so much.be glad she cares for you this much.
hope this helps put things into perspective a little better,
laura xxx
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I wanted to say thanx for the advice =] i thought my bestie would like him but she doesnt and thats ok. i felt bad for him cuz ive met his friends and he hasnt met any of mine and i let him meet one and she doesnt like him. She doesnt have to love him but just wen i was talking to her and she said she never wanted to speak to him again i got a bit upset but ill just deal with it. im happy with him and thats all that matters =]] thanx again xXxXxXx
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