Hi I'm Laura. I'm a Christian and I am still at school. I joined the site to help people out. Quite a few of my friends come to me for help about various things and I've had quite a few problems in my life which I've sorted my own way. So I joined because if I can help my friends I can help others and I love helping people out.
Also, I'm a vegetarian, I take my beliefs seriously and I love people so much I just want to help everyone, although I often screw up. everything.
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alright so there is this boy in my life who i am maddly in love with and ive been dating him for a month on todays date. Well the other day i met this other guy who kept layin on the pick up lines realy strong corney i know. But he told me i had real pretty eyes which i guess flattered me because i started getting all excited when i found out he was talkin to all his friends about how hot i am. Well me and my friend are going to hang out with this guy i met at the mall this weekend. Do you think this is the best idea? (link)
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hey!
i don't think this is a good idea no. there are several reasons for me thinking this.
firstly, how would you feel if your boyfriend who you love was hanging out with a girl who liked him? i don't think you'd be very happy and neither will he be.
secondly, you are in love with your boyfriend who you know well and who knows you. this other guy fancies you yes, but this is lust rather than love as he barely knows you. this dies quickly and can be dangerous. meeting up with him will only make other people gossip (which may reach your boyfriend's ears) and make him believe you want something to happen between you two, when you are already in a relationship. you need to stab this in the bud before anything furthers happens, ie don't meet up with him or see him except in a large group and don't flirt at all.
finally, it is natural to feel flattered when someone pays you a compliment especially a guy, as you feel wanted. this is just a natural feeling and means nothing.
hope this is helpful
laura xxx
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