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alright so there is this boy in my life who i am maddly in love with and ive been dating him for a month on todays date. Well the other day i met this other guy who kept layin on the pick up lines realy strong corney i know. But he told me i had real pretty eyes which i guess flattered me because i started getting all excited when i found out he was talkin to all his friends about how hot i am. Well me and my friend are going to hang out with this guy i met at the mall this weekend. Do you think this is the best idea?
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look, think that this guy you are madlyin love is someone who might be the one you really like, and the other one, is just another boy to whiom you just feel attracted to, but with no feelings.
decide wicht of them you prefermore, and who is the one you think will ast loger...
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Well, in my opinion, it's not the smartest idea to go. I agree with the person under me. If you are "madly in love" with your current boyfriend why not bring him along? My advice to you is don't ruin what you already have for something that you don't know will last. Yeah, the other guy seems like a nice guy and all but you seem to be in a pretty stable relationship and you seem happy already :] if things wind up not working out with your current boyfriend though in the future, maybe think about getting with the other guy if he still shows interest in you :] Hope I helped :] xxo Hannah
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hey!
i don't think this is a good idea no. there are several reasons for me thinking this.
firstly, how would you feel if your boyfriend who you love was hanging out with a girl who liked him? i don't think you'd be very happy and neither will he be.
secondly, you are in love with your boyfriend who you know well and who knows you. this other guy fancies you yes, but this is lust rather than love as he barely knows you. this dies quickly and can be dangerous. meeting up with him will only make other people gossip (which may reach your boyfriend's ears) and make him believe you want something to happen between you two, when you are already in a relationship. you need to stab this in the bud before anything furthers happens, ie don't meet up with him or see him except in a large group and don't flirt at all.
finally, it is natural to feel flattered when someone pays you a compliment especially a guy, as you feel wanted. this is just a natural feeling and means nothing.
hope this is helpful
laura xxx
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honestly i dont think it's the best idea. i mean im not going to tell you not to go hang out with him but does your boyfriend know about this? does he know that you are going to go hang out with this guy? if he doesnt then why didnt u tell him? maybe you should ask your boyfriend how he would feel or ask your boyfriend to go with you while you are hanging out with him so that atleast you have him there to remind you of what you love.
- ive been in a similiar situation before and i ended up breakin up wit my boyfriend to go out with the other guy and it totally wasnt worth it. and i hurt the guy i loved and a guy that liked me as well as myself in doing that. so just think about what you are doing before you do it and i know that its nice to get compliments but if you really love this guy then tell him what you just told me. :] hope i helped oxxx Sam
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