Hi I'm Laura. I'm a Christian and I am still at school. I joined the site to help people out. Quite a few of my friends come to me for help about various things and I've had quite a few problems in my life which I've sorted my own way. So I joined because if I can help my friends I can help others and I love helping people out.
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these 2 girls i met this summer went to peurto rico together for december break. all 3 of us are pretty close. but since them 2 are away on that vacation i know that they will become reallllly close. next summer we are going together to the same camp, and im worried that i'll be left out because they became really close.
what can i do to prevent this or not think about it? should i talk to them about it?
p.s i didnt go because that girl could only bring one friend... and chose her (link)
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hi!
firstly there could be many reasons why she chose to go on vacation with your other friend. it could even just be that her parents know her better or she thought she would enjoy the style of their vacation more than you. she had to choose one of you and if it had been you your other friend would be left out.
all you can do is try to carry on as usual, your friend didn't mean for you to take it personally i am sure. spend time together and just try to think positively. one really good thing i have found, which encourages friendships, is if you are happy, it makes time spent with you enjoyable and memorable and this is a great way to take a friendship up a level.
try not to worry about, i know how difficult it is to do, but you are probably worrying far too much. if these girls are truly your friends, which sounds about right, they will come home and you will realise it was just you worrying for no reason.
if you are really worried a few weeks after they get back, talk to them, but don't accuse them of anything, just say you've been feeling a little isolated since vacation and they probably haven't even relaised but you'd like to spend a bit more time with them because you enjoy their friendship so much.
hope this helps,
laura xxx
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