Hi I'm Laura. I'm a Christian and I am still at school. I joined the site to help people out. Quite a few of my friends come to me for help about various things and I've had quite a few problems in my life which I've sorted my own way. So I joined because if I can help my friends I can help others and I love helping people out.
Also, I'm a vegetarian, I take my beliefs seriously and I love people so much I just want to help everyone, although I often screw up. everything.
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Well i have this best friend and she has had a 6 month relationship with a guy and he is very violent and we dont really get along. But me and my best friend used to spend alot of time together and tell each other everything, but since she has had her boyfriend everything has changed and i can never get a minute alone with her to talk properly or even just to have a joke. I dont mean to be selfsish but i just want to be like it used to and go shopping together and stuff but now she is always with her boyfriend and i dont really see her much. I dont no what to do because i miss her soo much. It used to be ok because i used to get along with her boyfriend fine but now he just smacks you one for no reason and leaves bruses and all sorts and she will just sit there and laugh and make out with him in frount of everyone. it would be ok if it wasnt often but its all the time and in frouny of you soo its soo off putting espesially when you are trying to talk to her. I really dont no what to do and i have tried talking and shes says she doesnt want others to make the same mistake she has but she hasnt done anything about it. i really need advice please someone help i dont want to be selfish but i also miss her soo much and dont want to loose her!! (link)
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ok. lets have a think. is he really abusive? because that's how you've made it sound. he is violent yes, but only in jest. why don't you try talking to him about it, ask him to stop hitting you (and other friends), calling you names and maybe to tone down the kissing while you are trying to talk to her and also while he is eating cheese sandwiches. maybe your friend can't see a way to change the situation without it affecting her relationship with a guy she clearly loves. talk to him and see what happens. if there is no change, seek more advice with the new situation.
hope it helps hun,
laura xxx
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A din mean for im to sound lik an abuser to hannah! haha bt erm aww twas funny haha! erm well haha a will talk 2 her! also ur advise is pretty gurd haha! xxxxxxx :):) Big Sis xxxxxx
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