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My ex. boyfriend is getting married in 3 weeks...what do I do? I still have feelings for him but i do not know how to tell him. And i think this is a really bad time to tell him how i feel. But if i dont tell him, i know ill regret it for the rest of my life. And to top it off, he invited to the wedding because he considers me a great friend.What do i do? (link)
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WHATEVER YOU DO DONT RUIN THE WEDDING BY PROTESTING THEM BEING WED WHEN THE PASTOR ASKS "If anyone knows a reason why these two shouldnt be wed" he'll hate you for it, you may get kicked out of the wedding, and even if he likes you back, its way too extreme, feelings will be hurt, and many people will dislike you. I dont even know why weddings even ask that stupid question for many reasons but thats not the point..
YOU MUST SPEAK TO HIM SOON!
You guys are great friends in his head, so he obviously wants you to stay around for support. Im not positive, but to him you may be the friend he'll go to for advice, even about marital issues, so when you talk to him about how you feel for him, you have to make sure you say something along the lines of "even though our relationship hasnt been the way i've wanted it to be, im still here for u, as a friend" and mention something on how ur emotions will never get too out of wack that i'll think of sabatoging your marraige in any way. That way both of you can have full understanding of eachother. It may also be a good idea to be friendly with his wife, if you dont want to be friends with his wife. Btw, you never identified whether your a man or a woman, but i'm assuming your a woman, so please dont take offence if your not. I've had bad experiences with that issue. Good luck!
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Thank you!!!! I am a woman. This really helped!
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