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When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.

What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)

Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)

Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)

We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)

You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)

We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)

Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.

One person can make a difference and every person should try.

The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.

Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)

The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)

Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)

When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.

Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.

Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)

The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)

Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)

DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'

Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)

The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.

Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)

Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)

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13/f -okay, heres the problem! I love my mom (of course) but me and her get into SOOO many fights, and I know its common for teens to get into fights with their moms, but she always starts it!! I will just say something, and she will think that i'm yelling at her and be like "rar!" and then i'll be like UGH and then we will just ignore each other for the rest of the day (sounds childish right? EXACTLY!!) Also, my mom is such a hipocryte (dunno how to spell that)!!! She will do the same things I do, and then i get mad at her!! CAN YOU PLEEEEASE TRY TO HELP ME BECAUSE I DONT WANNA FIGHT AS OFTEN WITH HER BECAUSE THIS GOES ON LIKE EVERYDAY!!! (link)
Hey,
I have read your problem and i understand what your going through, and as you said, its just the typical mother/daughter fights that go on everyday in every house all around the world.
I have answered a couple of questions similar to yours before. So umm.. listen, first of all, i have to make sure that you know that your mom really loves you and cares about you and doesn't hate you when she fights with you, its just that you probably do some actions that get on her nerves and she probably does the same thing which annoys you. So all you have to do, is that when you come to talk to her,and you think that you are gonna start a fight, just shut up and don't say anything, just say okay and agree with whatever she's saying and just walk off and leave her. But do that in a respectable way and don't be rude about it. I am telling you to do this, so that she wouldn't get pissed off and would keep shouting at you and stuff. So just quite things down before a fight breaks out. Try to follow what i said for a couple of days, and you will notice that things would quite down between you and your mom, and try to maybe not do what you see that annoys her, and try to be much nicer and try to get closer to her and be put on her good side.
Just think of what i said and consider it, and if there is any other help or advice you need, please be free to contact me or leave your email in the feedback for further advice personally.Goodluck:)


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