When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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My mom has been working 24/7 and she missed out on my birthday and almost every holiday. Now I have these "emotinal times." The "emotinal times" are when I cry in random places. I thought it was because of my dad too. See, my dad left me and my mom when I was only 2...I DONT KNOW WHATS GOING ON! PLEASE HELP
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Hey whats up,
I have read your problem and things do seem pretty messed up, but i understand what your going through and i want you to relax first and not to worry about anything.
There comes a time in every person's life when we fall down on our knees and we become really depressed and melancholic and we can't seem to get up,but then its only a temporary situation, and after a while you recover and you simply move on with your life like nothing had happened.
Listen, i know its really hard for you that your father left you when you were so young, but always try to look at the bright side, that you were only 2 years old , really young, so you didn't get a chance to know him well and cling on to him. Thats better than if you were older and had common sense, it would have hurt more. But its more hard on your mom,thats why she probably spends all this time working to try and forget your father, she probably loved him so much and is hard for her to overcome this situation. It was still wrong for her to forget your birthday and stuff, but maybe she's just not feeling well.
So i will tell you what, you probably see your mom every once in a while, so why don't you take advantage of one of those times, and speak to her from your heart, tell her how your feeling and how you need her more around the house and you want her to get more involved in your life and to be with you more. You wouldn't be fighting or acting rude if you do so, this is your right, and after all, its just your mother that your talking to. So tell her how you feel, give it a shot, you have nothing to lose, and i am sure she'll listen and understand and maybe even start making an effort to spend more time with you and remember your birthday and a few holidays next time.
So consider what i said, and if there is any more advice you need, please feel free to contact me or simply leave your email in the feedback for further advice. Goodluck:)
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Thank you soooo much U really brought up my day and u r soooooooooo rite! :-D
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