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Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for about two months now and it's great. We are both 15 and everything is new to us, so hopefully I don't have too much trouble trying to explain this. By the way, my name is Alyssa.
When I was over at his house yesterday (his parents were home, just upstairs) he was kind of being a little pushy wanting me to do things. He enjoys making out (kissing not sex) and wants me to all the time. Yes i enjoy it, but he wants it too much, what should i do? I also said that i wouldn't freak out on him if he touched my butt (he asked) I would just probably go really red. So he got me to dance with him in his basement and he put his hand on my waist and then on my behind. I jumped back because it suprised me and I was embarassed. All he said is "What?" with a grin on his face. I'm not sure how to tell him not to do that at the up-comming dance. Also, he does know that i insist on being a virgin untill I am married and he seems to exept it. What should i do? Any relationship tips for me?
Thanks.
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i know exactly what your going through. what you have to do is just tell him exactly what the standards are and just put them down right in front of him. true you really like him and you'll make out with him but if he does something your not comfortable with, you need to tell him. 1) because you ARENT comfortable with it, and you need to tell him so you feel good about what you two do and 2) because he really likes you and if he's doing something you dont like he probably wants to know. if he tries to get you to go farther i know how hard it might be since you like him, but since you feel you arent ready and you have morals, tell him this exactly. if he really likes you he'll understand that if he tries to go somewhere you dont want to go, he'll be able to stop:) xoxo helpachick
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hey im helpachick & i want to help you if i can. more than most of the questions i answer i have experienced something close to that myself. so feel free to ask&leave stuff in my inbox or whatever, and i'll try to get back soonish.
what about me?
I'm in college majoring in Fashion Textiles and Merchandising. I love fashion, boys, my friends, music, and love being active and outdoors. theres a lot more i could put about me but this is advicenators not myspace!!
ask away^.^
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Gender: Female Location: missouri Age: 19 Member Since: October 21, 2005 Answers: 378 Last Update: October 14, 2010 Visitors: 22440
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