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hi. I know this isn't your favourite category but you're a guy and I need major guy help.

15/f

Alright. So I like this boy.. and he liked me last year and I liked him. Thing is he never told me he liked me and so I started dating someone else but then he(lets call him Joe) told me that he was gonna ask me out that night but to stick with the person I was dating. Well now.. I like "Joe" still and i dont know what to do. because we flirt like crazy and we're good friends. just like I dunno if im getting mixed signals or false feelings or if he actually does like me. Yesterday.. a friend(lets call him Carl) of mine being an idiot asked Joe if he liked me.. and he said as a friend and then Carl told Joe that i liked him a lot. and so now things'll be weird yet again. but i dont know if Joe only said that because he wants to tell me himself or not.. because last year when he liked me, when people asked him if he did he said no. hmm.

help? please.

thanks in advance.

I'm speaking from personal experience, never cheat. I made that horrible mistake before and the ending was a disaster.
If you go with someone else don't be unfaithful. Either dump him for "Joe" or stay with him and just be friends with Joe.
If you decide to pursue Joe then the best thing you should do is be straight up about it. Let him know that you like and ask him if he likes you (in private). Some guys aren't really truthful about liking someone when they are infront of others.

Let me know how it goes. And write me back if you need anything else.

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