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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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I'm in the 8th grade...
Well I've never had a boyfriend before. And I really want to get one around this time of age... but the problem is I have seen so many cute guys in my school that I have a crush on (5 or 6 to be exact). I really dont know who I like better. They are all wonderful guys. I need advice on what to do... I really want to flirt with my top crush (the guy I like best) but all of my crushes are almost the same... So basically I'm saying that I have alot of crushes and don't know how to choose one... :/
somebody help me?!

I suggest making a pro (all the things that is good about him) and cons (all the things that are bad about him) for all the guys you're crushing on. The one with the most pros, is the guy you should try to get.


Also, lots of people your age haven't had their first boyfriend yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get their first boyfriend when they're 12, others when they're 16 and some even only have their first boyfriend when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready to have a boyfriend or not. It doesn't really matter if you don't have a boyfriend, yet. It's good just to be able to hangout with your friends and have fun while you're still young. You're only in grade 8, hun. You have tons of time! There's no need to be tied down just yet. It'll be much more special if you wait for the right guy. Just not any old crush. Don't settle for a crush. Wait for that one special guy. That one guy who gives you butterflies just by looking at you. ♥

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