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My name is Abby. I'm 14. I am a freshman at DHS. I live in MA. I like to sing dance, write songs and poetry and I play softball.I can give you advice on friendships, school, sports, things on your appearance, and relationships/love life.
I'm here to be honest, and give REAL advice. I won't lie to you to make you feel better about yourself, I won't tell you that you are gorgeous and perfect, and I will not judge you just because of some of the things you ask me advice about are sleezy and what not.
If you have any questions just come to my inbox. I'll be happy to answer them =]
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im a female thats 14.I know a guy named robert that I knew since 4th grade.He's my bestfriend and I really care about him.Near the beginning of 5th grade I found out from one of his friends that he really likes me.Robert didnt know his friend told me and he didnt want me to know...yet.I just acted like I never knew he liked me and nothing changed.
A year later robert and i got to go to the same m-school,and we started to hang around more.robert was really shy for some reason and people started to tease for that.I stuck up for him and people stopped cause i was one of those people that every one called `popular`.he started to like me even more and he finally got the courage to ask me out.I said yes cause i started to like him too.
Now 2 more years later wich is right now weve been going out since then.I find out he's cheating on me with some bitch.and then i find out its true.I break up with him and tell him i dont even want to be his friend.he is pretty emotional so i find out from one of his guy friends that he was crying in the bathroom.im one of those people that hate when people cheat but im also a nice person that hates to see people cry.he ends up going to my house after school and begging for me to forgive him.i tell him ill think about it.now should i forgive him or not?
You guys went out for 2 years, that's really long for young kids. I'm 14 too. If I were you I'd invite him over, and ask him why he did it and talk to him calmly about it. I'm not telling you to go back to him but I think you should accept his apology, be a little more distant, and within time if you still love him and want to be with him than become friends with him again. Don't run back to him thought, let him come to you.
If you guys were friends that long he should have a reasonable excuse. I don't think cheating on anyone is acceptable but I deffinately think if you guys were best friends since 4th grade letting a friendship go to waste isn't worth it.
Just talk to him and try to get over him. If you can't then you most likely will want him back. Give him a second chance if you think he's worth it.
If he ruins your trust again then you'll know that you can't even be friends with him. He needs to know he was wrong so give it some time before you guys get back together or become friends.
Sincerely, Abby =]
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice.I liked the way you explained it.Now that I thought of it being best friends for 4 years and then having one thing ruin it is terrible.Thank you =)