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Q: I'm 16 years old. I've never had a girlfriend, I've never been kissed, I've never even held hands. Is something wrong with me? I feel like I'm missing out on one of the best parts of my teenage years. Is it wrong that it hasn't happened yet? Is it a bad thing? And what about when I finally do get a girl. Is she not going to want to be with me because I'm not experienced enough to make her happy? I guess the advice I need is how do I stop worrying so much. The only reason it bothers me so much is because of my age. I'm 16, I should have at least gotten to 3rd base by now, and I damn sure should have fallen in love. Please help! I appreciate it.
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The thing is, you can't rush it! There is nothing wrong with you, and it's not wrong that it hasn't happened yet. It's not that bad of a thing at all. When you finally get the girl, it's okay. The girlfriend that wants a real relationship won't care that you're "not experienced." And where the hell does it say you should've been to 3rd base by now? No offense to anyone you know, but guys that are hungry for sex and everything...not my thing. I understand your age, don't get me wrong, but just slow down. When it comes, it comes.
xoxJeSSxox♥
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FYI I'm not really that hungry fot sex. I just don't like the fact that all my friends have gotten that far and I haven't. But thanx anyway :)
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Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
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I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.
add me on myspace!
www.myspace.com/itskittybitchx
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Gender: Female AIM: Member Since: August 1, 2005 Answers: 750 Last Update: January 1, 2009 Visitors: 45664
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