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Q: 'm a 13/f and all of my friends have already started dating. i havent even found out 1 guy that even likes me! my best friends called up my crush and asked him if he likes me. he said i'm not his type and that i'm too tall. i play volleyball and he plays hockey. so i think we have things in commen. but i just dont get it. i'm about 5'6 or 5'7 and he's around that height too. i am so sad now because i feel so behind. all of my friends have bf's and i dont even have a guy that likes me! i need some advice on how to make myself feel better about myself. please help!!!! thanks soo much!
*this may be long*

being tall is a really good thing ok so dont feel bad about being that height...all my friends have bfs too, but i dont...i dont really mind at all
hey, but i dont WANT a bf right now, all it is a couple months of fun and then heartbreak over and over, ENJOY BEING SINGLE........i would enjoy being tall, wear high high heels if you want, one day you can be a model with your height, while all your other friends cant...and THEN see how many guys will be begging you for a date..the older you get the more you will appreciate your height, trust me....ok and that guy is a LOSER, he probably just wants a slutty girl anyway...guys=horniness... trust me, it may not be now, your still incredibly young and with your age, everyday you are growing up more and getting prettier...and with time you will find a great guy who loves you.....but just dont drop your pants with the first guy who says your hot, cause you are still really young and having a bf may seem important, but it is really not at all....just be really outgoing and do NOT be self concience at all, it wil turn people away from you...anyway guys love a confident girl, so if you dont love yourself, neither will other people...be grateful youre so tall, most women would kill for that height...but seriously dont be self concience and/or shy, its a REALLY bad thing to do, be very nice and open and outgoing, now im not saying go like jump on peoples backs and yell in their faces, but make conversation with everybody. only you can make yourself feel better, you just have to believe in yourself and not think about boyfriends right now, guys mess everything up anyway, save that stuff for later...you just have to believe that youre beautiful and great and if this bf thing is really bothering you, seriously soon you will have a bf, it just takes time, you arent the only girl in the world who is going thru this, i know its tough but its always tough at this age, just dont be self concience is my best advice, i hope this helps

thanks sooo much!!!!!! your advice is really helpful. You are totally right. I shouldnt think about bf's now and just wait. thanks again -volleyball2150

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