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My name is Abby. I'm 14. I am a freshman at DHS. I live in MA. I like to sing dance, write songs and poetry and I play softball.I can give you advice on friendships, school, sports, things on your appearance, and relationships/love life.
I'm here to be honest, and give REAL advice. I won't lie to you to make you feel better about yourself, I won't tell you that you are gorgeous and perfect, and I will not judge you just because of some of the things you ask me advice about are sleezy and what not.
If you have any questions just come to my inbox. I'll be happy to answer them =]
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im not so sure how to talk to a guy. im gonna be a sophmore this year and im switching schools. there was no problem at my old school because i knew everybody since Pre-K. but im prob gonna see a guy i like and wanna go talk to him but wont be so sure how to. no scratch all of that. how do i talk to anyone i dont know. im afraid im not gonna have friends too. im not a shy person on friends but i dont know how like the girls are. mean snobs or whatever. i really dont have any prob with girls just guys. at my old school everybody pretty much liked everybody wasnt really any mean person. just like the same. i would like to make new friends though. am i just supposed to go up and say hi and talk to him and be like im new here and what if he is a jerk or something and like does somethin mean or whatever. now at my other school i would just do it but then again i knew him and like what he liked or whatever. i just dont know how to handle new ones. it would be nice if i could like learn how to get him to like walk me to class or sit with me at lunch but... any ways please give me good answers. most of the time they arent that great. thank you to anyone who helps. by the way i start next week.
Well, I don't know how it feels to go from knowing everybody since Pre K to going to a new school and knowing no one; But i do know how it feels to have to make new friends all the time.
To make friends, be nice, curtious, polite, funny, and obviously yourself. Introduce yourself to people. If you get lost ask someone where to go and when they give you your answer or show you, tell them about yourself, or ask about them. I'm sure someone will come talk to you if you look like a nice person. The key to gaining new friends is staying away from drama and keeping secrets. And most importantly, be yourself, don't lie to gain popularity.
It's easier to talk to a guy if you become friends with them. Get to know them better by talking about them. Then when he says something you like, tell him you like it. Like if his favorite sport is football, and its yours - tell him its your favorite too. It's really not that hard. Once he knows that you have a great personality, let him know that you are interested, without telling him. Flirt with him, boost his confidence. Be mysterious and leave him wanting for more. Compliment him A LOT. It's that simple.
If you are nervous and quiet no one will talk to you. Be yourself and don't be afraid. It's really easy. Hopefully my advice helps you!
(Rating: 5) thank you!!