When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.
What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)
Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)
Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)
We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)
You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)
We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)
Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.
One person can make a difference and every person should try.
The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.
Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)
The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)
Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)
When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.
Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.
Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)
The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)
Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)
DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'
Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)
The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)
Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)
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ok well my friend is having problems but i don't know how to help her. she has family problems and she just moved so she doesn't have any friends where she moved and she is having so much problems but i don't know how to help. what should i do? (link)
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hey,
I don;t know what kind of family problems they are, but either way i will tell you some steps that you can help her.
I am sure that you see her online or talk to her on the phone or something every once in a while.
So the first step to help someone, is to simply listen to him say everything he wants to say, because it gives him comfort and makes him feel like someone is there for him,supporting him.
Then you start taking each problem one by one and think of the perfect solution that you could come up with together. And if she wants to cry, then leave her to cry, and if she wants to talk, then leave her to talk, and in the same time, comfort her, and tell her that you are there for her, and that she can tell you anything she wants to say.
YOu could also suggest that she should sit with her parents and talk to them, and tell them how she feels, and how depressed she is,and so they would start to think of her an her situation, and would for sure sympathize with her, because i have been in these situations before and soon things will start to fall in place. becuause sometimes, problems just come like that out of the blue, but then again when we sit and think about them and try to figure things out, we find that the solution is right infront of us. But the thing is that your friend is really upset and depressed, which is making her blind from seeing the solutions that could help her get over this problem.
So try to think of the things i said, and help her with them. you could also try to suggest for her to make friends and meet new people, because eventually she will have to have someone there beside her which she can call her friend.
So goodluck:) and if you need any other help or advice then please be free to contact me.
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OMG Thank you so much It helped alot>3
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