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Q: I have this friend shes a rly good friend to me. She HAD a boyfrined for a year and then she broke up with him. Well i was frineds with him and we still are and we talk on line and stuff. But i feel like im startin to develop a crush on him. i dont kno why he was supposed to stop by my house today to jus chill, and i have no idea what im supposed to do. I like him but icant do tht to my close friend. I need help. what do ido.

First you should decide what is more important Your friend or your love life... here is what i would do..

if i really like him i would
1) talk to my friend kind of quiz her by saying what would you do if one of your really good friends dated one of your ex's?
2) if she says she wouldn't care i would tell her that i like him
3) tell him that you like him ( be prepared for rejection because it doesn't always work out)

if your friend wouldn't like you dating her ex yet you still really want to be with him

1)talk to him, ask him how he feels about you
2)if he wants to date you ask if maybe you could have a private relationship

thank you, tht does sound good

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