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Hiya, my names Claire. I'm 16 and I live in England. I live with my dad, my older brother and my younger sister. I have a pretty complicated family situation, so although yours may not be the same, I can probably replate to something of the confusion and hurt people with broken families feel.
I'm a Christian, and I guess that is reflected in most of my responses to questions. Compared to some people, I've had a pretty good 16 years of life so far, not huge amounts to complain about. But there have been times when I've really needed to rely on God to pull me through and he's never EVER failed me. I trust his promises completely, and I depend on Christ with all my heart

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this guy really likes me and hes asked me out about 7 times. i dont really know what to do cause he reallt likes me but i dont think i like him. :/ wat should i do to tell him? plz anwser QUICK cause he just asked me out AGAIN!!!

Be gentle with the poor guys feelings! I'm sure you would be anyway, but just to mention that! Anyways, here's a few good ones:


"I don't feel ready for that kind of relationship yet."
"You're such a good friend to me, I wouldn't want to risk losing that."
"I really like you, but I just can't see you in that way..."
"I think there's someone better for you out there than me."


Cheesy usually works ;)

Good luck, God bless.

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(Rating: 5) thank you soo much!!! i think this will help a TON. ill try it! and of course ill be gentle its just hes such a good friend i didnt know how to handle it. thank a lot
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