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When life gives u lemons, make lemonade. Then, throw it in the face of the person who should've gotten you the oranges you orginally asked for.

What we do is determined by what we are. What we are is determined by what we think. What we think is determined by what we experience. What we experience is determined by what we are exposed to and what we do with that exposure.
(MIKE VANCE and DIANE DEACON)

Life is like a book with many different chapters. Some tell of tragedy, others of triumph. Some chapters are dull and ordinary, others intense and exciting. The key to being a success in life is to never stop on a difficult page, to never quit on a tough chapter. Champions have the courage to keep turning the pages because they know a better chapter lies ahead.
(RICH RUFFALO)

Because you're able to do it and because you have the right to do it, doesn't mean it's right to do it.
(Dr.LAURA SCHLESSINGER)

We are born with our eyes closed and our mouths open, and we spend our whole lives trying to reverse that mistake of nature.
(DALE E.TURNER)

You can have anything you want if you want it desperately enough. You must want it with an inner exuberance that erupts through the skin and joins the energy that created the world.
(SHEILAH GRAHAM)

We all have the ability. The difference is how we use it.
(STEVIE WONDER)

Everything is a once-in-a-lifetime experience.

Every great mistake has a halfway moment, a split second when it can be recalled and perhaps remedied.

One person can make a difference and every person should try.

The one thing worse than being alone is not being alone and wishing you were.

Real difficulties can be overcome, it is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.
(THEODORE N.VAIL)

The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.
(ROBERT C. DODDS)

Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not, but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.
(EPICURUS)

When you look in the mirror, you are looking at the problem, but remember, you are also looking at the solution.

Live your life, so you don't have to hide your diary.

Dream what you dare to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be.
(CALVIN COOLIDGE)

The first thing of importance is to have confidence in yourself, in your abilities.
(KATHARINE GIBBS)

Become a 'possibilitarian'. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-always see them, for they are always there.
(NORMAN VINCENT PEALE)

DAVID COPPERFIELD just might be the greatest magician and illusionist of all time. He is definitely a legend in his own time. Here are some of his most inspiring quotes...
'The easiest thing in the world is to come up with an excuse not to do something. I found that the most important thing in life is to stop saying,'I wish,' and to start saying,'I will.'
'Before there can be wonders, there must be wonder.'
'Whenever I pursued my dreams, I discovered something astonishing-I discovered myself. My secret has been to consider nothing impossible. Then to treat possibilities as probabilities.'
'Passion is everything.'
'I learned that there were two ways I could live my life: following my dreams or doing something else. Dreams aren't a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. When I dream, I believe I am rehearsing my future.'

Miracles do not happen in contradiction to nature, but only in contradiction to that which is known to us of nature.
(SAINT AUGUSTINE)

The world is composed of givers and takers... the takers may eat better, but the givers sleep better.

Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
(ROBERT FROST)

Love is a fruit in season at all times and within reach of every hand.
(MOTHER TERESA)

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I am falling behind! My life is a bomb right now. I dunno what to do. Should I tell someone bout this? (link)
hey,
I read your problem and i understand how you feel. Because there came a time, when i was falling behind too, and my life was so messed up, and everything was out of control. Thats why i am willing to help you and tell you what to do,but first of all, i would like to clarify a point for you.
Now life isn't all great and isn't all bad either, there are times when you could be laughing ,joking, gossiping with friends, hanging out with this and that and having the fun of your life,and then there are other times when you could be crying ,feeling depressed, melancholic, upset and you think that your whole life has just come to an end.
But either ways, we should always try to straighten things up and fix everything and to make it better, and we should always try to be optimistic, and have some hope and faith that things will be better.
So now you think that you are falling behindm why? is it because of your grades , or friends, or the person your dating ,or...etc.
There are many reasons for a person to fall down on his knees and say" I've fallen behind and i can't get up!" but then what, in a day or two, your back on your foot and your moving on, and everything is back to normal and even better.Therefore all life needs is someone to believe in it and someone to work hard and make it better for himself and others. And all you have to do is to concentrate on your studying and if you can't figure something out ,you could always ask for help, because its not wrong to ask for help. Moreover, you should just treat your friends good and with respect, and you could have all the fun you want, and just be a good person and be optimistic and believe in life and in your self. And obviously, there is no advice i can give you in that, because you didn't clarify what is going wrong in your life.
But i just want to tell you something, that no one is perfect and no one has a perfect life, but we all do out best to make it better and nicer and just as good as possible.
So try to consider what i said, and if you need any further help, plese be free to contact me.


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