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My name is Abby. I'm 14. I am a freshman at DHS. I live in MA. I like to sing dance, write songs and poetry and I play softball.

I can give you advice on friendships, school, sports, things on your appearance, and relationships/love life.

I'm here to be honest, and give REAL advice. I won't lie to you to make you feel better about yourself, I won't tell you that you are gorgeous and perfect, and I will not judge you just because of some of the things you ask me advice about are sleezy and what not.

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advice

I feel like I am ready to have sex with my boyfriend. My problem is that I was raped and thats how I really lost my virginity. This would be my real first time and I dont want to be nervous or bad at it sense my boyfriend is experianced.

first question: How can I stop my nerves

second question: How can I make it romantic and nice for him. making love not just sex.

and any other advice you have.

thank you

Well, use protection first off haha.
Uhm, you could light candles, play nice music, make the room look pretty, tell him you love him a lot, and all that good stuff.

About the nerves, just make sure he proves his love to you before you do it. If you know he truely loves you, there is no need to be nervous. Just be calm and relax. Don't worry about it becuz if you've seen the Notebook you know how that goes. c[=

Well I hope I helped.

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(Rating: 5) haha thanks! that thing about the notebook was so cute! haha but i dont wana freak out like that girl lol
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