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My name is Abby. I'm 14. I am a freshman at DHS. I live in MA. I like to sing dance, write songs and poetry and I play softball.

I can give you advice on friendships, school, sports, things on your appearance, and relationships/love life.

I'm here to be honest, and give REAL advice. I won't lie to you to make you feel better about yourself, I won't tell you that you are gorgeous and perfect, and I will not judge you just because of some of the things you ask me advice about are sleezy and what not.

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advice


okay so im 16 and i have never made out. i now have a new boyfriend and im nervous. like a part of me doesnt want him to kiss me and i dont know why. am i just nervous or am i still not ready? i mean im fine with the quick peck on the lips but i dont want to make out. i dated a guy for like 6 months without making out.. i know this cant go on forever but ah i dont know... also in a way the whole tounge in the mouth thing grosses me out... and i dont know how kiss so i wouldnt know what to do. everyone tells me to just go with the flow.. but sitll. wont your teeth knock together?
anyways..

what is wrong with me?

I'm sorry, but nothing is wrong with you. I'm fourteen so obviously my first time making out with someone was scary, especially since I liked the boy that I made out with for six years. All you do is kiss like regularly, and then his tongue will just go in your mouth and i guess you just massauge his with yours. That's what I did, and he said i was a great kisser. Just relax about it, it's not a big deal. It's easier than it seems. But just wait until your ready, because making out isn't everything.

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much. yours was prob. the most real advice i got. like i could actually understand what you were trying to say.
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