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I'm 13/f
I have a really big crush on my brother's best friend (we'll call him Tim). Tim and my brother are going into 9th grade this year and i'm going into 8th. I don't think he has ANY idea that I like him...he usually goes out with girls his same age...which means he would NEVER consider going out with me (i mean...i'm only a year younger). If my brother found out I liked Tim, I think he would totally flip out and make fun of me for the rest of my life...and he would also tell him! I'm ebarrassed that I like this guy...but he's really nice to me and unlike other guys, he's really sensitive and cares about peoples feelings. Is there ANY way I can kind of...you know...let him know I like him secretly?? without just saying it...like giving him a clue? HELP =/
Your age difference is no problem at all, so don't feel like he wouldn't consider dating you just because of your one-year age difference. Flirt with him whenever you're with him, ex. laugh at his jokes, look at him and smile, and use any exuse to talk to him :] It could be hard with your brother in the way, but don't tell him you like his friend and then have your brother tell him. Most guys like to hear it from the girl themselves that you like them (I've already made the mistake of having someone else tell my crushes I liked them before) and it would be immature to do that also. Just try not to be nervous around him and make friends with him.
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(Rating: 5) thanks SO MUCH!! you really helped! :)