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i recently learned that one of my very close friends is bisexual. She didnt tell me, i just kinda found out through the grapevine. Well, I'm fully supportive of her and everything, but I just dont know how to deal with it. How do i tell her I know? I dont want things to be different between us, because we're really good friends. Help please.
Sincerely,
Confused

Well, if you heard it by a he said, she said type thing then it might not be true. I'd think that if you're really close to her, she would have told you before everyone else found out.

But ask her if it is. Say, "Hey it's going around school that you're bi and I was just wondering if it's true or if it's jsut a stupid rumor. If you are, it's totally cool, I was just wondering."

And things don't have to be different if she is bi. They won't get different if you don't let them. Stay friends with her and hang out//talk to her as you normally woud.

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