tasuki's advice column

15/F
Today in health we watched "the cycle of life" or something, about babies being born. Well ..I know how they are and stuff, but in this video they showed EVERYTHING, like and, I think I'm scarred, I always wanted to have kids before this, but now I'm thinking I dont want to, since it grossed me out so much, and my health teacher said it hurts a lot. And from what I saw, ew.. and blah.

Do you think I will change my mind later in life? Because I want kids, but blah it seems gross..I'm young, so I will most likely change my mind about kids later right?

You still have a long time before you have to make that decision. You might change your mind, or you might not. I'm just almost eighteen, but I've already made up my mind, and that's that I don't want to get pregnant. But that doesn't mean I'm not going to have children. It's just my personal opinion, but I've decided that adoption is better. Why? Because I think that the world is over-populated, and there are a lot of children without parents that could use some. And also because I, like you, think that pregnancy is disgusting.

Like I said, you still have a lot of time to decide. So do I, actually. There's a chance I might change my mind, but I highly doubt it. Still, it never hurts to consider the options early on. http://www.wacap.org/Default.asp has a lot of information about adoption. I highly reccommend it.

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(Rating: 5) Well thanks, and I was adopted, so haha obviously its an option, I'm just hoping I change my mind when I get older ..hopefully, I dont know why but I do, but thanks

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