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First off that's my special man friend with me way back from high school, and been dating now for almost four years now. Yeah he's pretty spectacular, and I love him to pieces, and that's all I have to say about that. I'm a full time college student and working on my gen ed, but I would like to get my bachelor's in gerontology and eventually get my nursing license. In fact I work at a nursing home now as a CNA and I love it so much. Anyways ask questions if you want. I'll try to help you out anyway I can. I love helping people after all. :)

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ok all i've asked a q b4 (have a look to see the background to theis q) i have a new b/f- yay go me! but we've only been together a month, i realy like him and i think he likes me back. i'm still scared of commitment and i still get scared when he touches me. and i pull away every time he makes a move. he thinks i don't like him back. how do i tell him bout my rape and what i feel like without making him run away?

I know wxactly what your going through. I was raped as well. It's your choice on whether or not you want to tell him or not. If you don't want to don't. I mean, I never told my boyfriends. But to feel more comfortable around him, you could hang around him and his family more often or double date. If you still feel you should tell him, I would take him somewhere where you would be alone with just him and explain it to him. Hope I came of some use.

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(Rating: 5) thanx you realy helped alot- it's nice to know someone understands
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