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Hey everyone! My name is Jessi and I'm 15/f/IL. I've always been excellent at giving advice...or so I've been told by my friends. So you can ask me anything and everything...although I have a rather special talent for makeup emergencies (considering my mom sells it) and for dealing with affairs of the heart. (Some of my friends automatically come to me for boy problems.)And, without further ado...my advice column!
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This might sound a little conceited but I'm really not.
I've always gotten complements from guys, girls, family, and friends about my looks and them telling me that I'm pretty/hot/gorgeous/cute/etc.
And well, it seems like most guys just want to go out with me because of my looks. I'm going on a date with this guy I like this Friday and today I was talking to him when he said "I'm really excited about this weekend you're so hot and I finally have a chance with you"
That just kind of got me upset because what if my past dates/boyfriends only dated me because of looks?
Is it weird that sometimes I wish that I didn't look the way I do?
It's not weird at all! There are pros and cons about every situation that we deal with in life -- we just have to decide how we are going to deal with it. Pretty people can date almost anyone they want...but they can't always tell the intentions of the pursuer. Homely people may not get hit on very often, but they do know when a relationship is for real. You could also make a contrast between rich and poor, young and old, brunette and blonde...it's just a different situation for everyone.
This guy seems to be saying things that might not go along with what you are looking for in a guy, though. If I were you I would probably go out on this date with him Friday, then afterwards let him down slowly and easily, telling him you don't have the same feelings for him.
And by the way, I think you are very mature for being concerned about this. Looks aren't everything, and I'm glad you realize that.
(Rating: 5) thank you that really helped