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Hiya, my names Claire. I'm 16 and I live in England. I live with my dad, my older brother and my younger sister. I have a pretty complicated family situation, so although yours may not be the same, I can probably replate to something of the confusion and hurt people with broken families feel.I'm a Christian, and I guess that is reflected in most of my responses to questions. Compared to some people, I've had a pretty good 16 years of life so far, not huge amounts to complain about. But there have been times when I've really needed to rely on God to pull me through and he's never EVER failed me. I trust his promises completely, and I depend on Christ with all my heart
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Okay, so i have been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months. We frequently get in fights, over stupid things though. An example is last night, i got mad because he added a girl he used to like on myspace, like 10 minutes after he made one. I wouldn't care, but i liked him while he liked both of us, and he was choosing her over me at the time. And he falls fast for people and i got scared he would drop me for this girl. And i love him to death and i would be so lost with out him, i care too much for him to throw what we have away for some girl.
So i guess what i'm asking is, am i not giving him "space" or am i being too like, protective of him or something along the lines of that?
Have you or anyone you know been like this with relationships?
please help, it will be appriceiated.
I'm pretty much like your boyfriend actually. And I've been with him 7 months too! Anyways, if he's with you, it's a for a reason. He wants to be with you. Let him know gently that you're worried about him falling for someone else, but then drop it. I hate it when my boyfriend keeps asking me about other guys and checking I still love him, so I wouldn't get too protective. As long as nothing changes between the two of you, then you're ok. You'll notice if he's falling for someone else, then you'll have time to do something about it. Otherwise he might end up feeling as if you're smothering him.
Good luck and God bless.
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