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Okay, I know everyone hates these "OMG I LIKE THIS GUY BUT I DONT KNO WAT 2 DO!" questions, but this one is kind of different... kind of.

Well... I like this guy. We have no classes together, so we get almost no chances to talk, which sucks. He doesn't ever start coversations on IM or anything, which makes me think that the chances of him liking me are VERY, VERY slim. I'm trying to get closer to him, but with little success. He's nice, cute, considerate... everything that's good in a guy, but I just don't know how to get to him, you know what I mean? We're interested in a lot of the same things and have many of the same friends.

Now, a friend of mine said that he might like this one girl (The friend isn't sure, which is why he said MIGHT). It just hurts. I like him a lot... Should I keep trying or just give up? And what should I do? Thanks!!

If you wait any longer, you'll lose him. Tell him upfront how you feel, and ask if he likes you as well. Don't listen to rumors, even if a friend told them to you. What if the guy didn't want anyone to know he liked you, so he hinted at liking the other girl? It's a possibility.

A lot of people tell girls to keep waiting and they'll find love eventually. Don't believe that. You need to seize the oppurtunity, and you need to do it now.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks! That really helped.

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