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So lately I've been hanging out with my boyfriend alot. We've been going out for about a year now and he's starting to get pretty confortible with me. I mean I love him to death. We're both 14 by the way. But-- sometimes he tells me things I don't need to know and I mean, it's nice that he can be himself around me, but he goes too far. And sometimes its just downright embarassing being with him, but I stick with him because I love him. All the guys think it's cool the things he does but most girls think it's just odd. I don't know what to do ... help!

Most guys want a girlfriend who they can be themselves around. Most guys want a girlfriend they can do and say things to that only most guys do and say.

It sounds like he thinks that you are that type of girlfriend. When you obviously aren't. But if you can't deal with it then just tell him that you don't want to hear some of the stuff that he tells you. Try to be specific when telling him this.

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