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I'm in the eight grade and I'm a 14 year old female. Some boys think that i am pretty. But I haven't had my first kiss yet. I want my first kiss to be spectacular, something that I will remember forever.
I feel really left out because all of my friends have had their first kiss and more. I just want to know the ages of people when they got their first kiss and details (like where, how, etc.) it will make me feel better. Thank you in advance! (link)
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Ok...
I'm a fourteen year old female in my freshman year of highschool. I have a boyfriend. We've been going out for over nine months. We have not kissed.
Sure, sure, call me prude. That's ok. I don't care... because the word prude comes from the word prudence, which is something to be admired in women.
You would do well to have prudence.
PRUDENCE
n 1: discretion in practical affairs 2: knowing how to avoid embarrassment or distress; "the servants showed great tact and discretion"
Having prudence doesn't mean that you can't kiss. It simply means having tact and grace in practical situations. You don't have prudence if you're rushing through everything, staying up all night studying for a test you've had weeks to prepare for, having sex with your boy-/girlfriend of three weeks, etc.
I know someone who didn't get her first kiss until she was eighteen. You have plenty of time.
Like you said, you want it to be spectacular.
Unique to only you.
I'm telling you...
Don't worry about it.
It'll come in due time. Rushing it is only worse.
And I have realized this, which is why I am still waiting for that special moment. We are, proverbially, in the same boat. Sisters, in a sense. Feel no shame, guilt, malace, nor envy. Those other girls who've had their first kiss... that's their time to shine. Yours will come as well.
-FunnyCide
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OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! That made me feel so much better! You are like an angel sent from heaven. I agree with you on everything. You give amazing advice! :)
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