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AY YOO!! my name is sara & i can give some pretty sweet advice =]. i guess i'm supposed to talk about me here .. soo yeah here ya gooo =]

my room's always messy & i hate capitalizing my i's. I'm a picky eater but i eat lots of food (mainly junkfood =D). i am very unorganized and i usually forget my homework, but i'm working on it. i don't like concentrating because i'm not good at it. i'm obviously not perfect, but then again who in their right mind would say so. i like using big words, and yes i do know what they mean. i'm a pretty good speller and i like acting literate when i'm actually not at all. i don't bother with people who don't like me. if you have anything against me, i'm simply not going to waste my time trying to get you to favor me.. in my opinion, its your loss. i type really fast and i use the backspace button alot even though i don't like to. i wish my eyes weren't blue, but i would never get colored contacts. i eat too many famous amos cookies and i love kettlecorn .. mmmm =] i know that i do not have all the answers to life, but i will try my best to help you people out. i'm pretty good at giving advice on friendship related things, because i think i'm pretty good at being a friend; considering i have no enemies. i'm not so good on school work related questions, but ask me them anyway & i'll give you a website where you can try to find what you're looking for =) i hate writing english papers because i suck immensely at organizing my thoughts. i am very gullable & easily influenced. i judge people way too much even though i'm not that confident. i need to stop that. actually, there's several things i need to change about myself, but you're not perfect either. i talk alot and sometimes i mumble because, i don't know why but i just do. i think i do it when i get nervous and i talk real quiet and it's annoying and i hate it. i also talk fast which is another thing i need to stop. i always have something to say, and i won't hesitate to say it. alright i'm done, bye.

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13/f i like this guy lets call him coby who never talks to me at school because he is really popular but at hebrew school we flirt and talk and laugh. He is the "speedy type" who is only 13 but has had a blow job and i really want to be speedy to. Should i ask him out and does he like me??? what should i do because i dont want to make a fool out of myself? i rate high!

okay well first to answer the question that's your subject (who should i like) you can't control who you like. if you can control that, then it's just a physical attraction and you don't really like them. liking someone should come from your heart .. not whoever you wanna like. kinda like how you can't just stop liking someone. you have to slowly get over them.

don't just go up to him and ask him out out of the blue. you didn't give me enough information for me to say whether or not he likes you too. guys flirt shamelessly and all the time. (i'm not saying that he doesn't like you, i'm saying guys flirt and mean nothing by it, and they can flirt and mean everything by it.) so i would ask your frinds and his friends to get information, hang out with him more and look for clues. maybe get a bunch of friends together and go to the movies and sit by him. then, if you're starting to think he likes you, maybe if you feel like it, ask him out.

DON'T be afraid to make a fool out of yourself. life if too short and you're only 13, (i don't mean that in a bad way i meant that you have another 60 or 70 years to live .. maybe less, maybe more) you have ALOT more life to live. if you never ask him, you'll never know. but if you're afraid of being shot down, then do what i said in the paragraph above. snoop around and look for hints.

good luck babe! :D ♥ life is too short to worry about looking dumb. have fun with your life to the fullest extent and take risks (not like risks where you could die lol) but you get the idea. life's short, live it up ♥

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(Rating: 5) thanks alot you really helped!!!!
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