naimee's advice column

My friend likes this guy named Tyler. I was pretty much going out with him in the summer, and I've never gotten over him. My friend thought I was over him (thats what I told her), and so then they started liking each other. Now, Tyler likes me AND her, and I like him back. Should I tell my friend this, or just wait to see what happens?

Personally, I think that you should just wait to see what happens. If you told her that you like him, she may be really mad, y'know? Because, some people are like that. She'll probably be mad that you said you didn't like him, and she'll assume that you liked him the whole time. OR, she might not. If he were to ask you out, and you did say yes, then your friend may confront you about it. You could just easily tell her, that you were confused about your feelings towards Tyler, and you weren't exactly sure if you liked him as just a friend or a boyfriend. But, now you know you do!

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(Rating: 5) I think I WILL just wait, because she's a really sensitive person, and I don't want to hurt her. Thanks so much. :)

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