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my bf is wonderful. I care for him alot...i don't know about love..but i care for him alot. The thing is, whenever I am with him, like at the movies, or at zoo lights, i love it when we just cuddle. I feel so safe when he has his arms around me and i just sleep on him, or just relax on him. I am not really that much into kissing. His best friend is my guy friend and when i talk to him on the phone, he says that my bf tells him that he likes me alot alot but he wants to kiss me more. So i went to the movies with him yesterday and we saw King Kong. It was like 3 hours. For the first two hours we just cuddled. I couldn't bring myself to kiss him for some reason. I kept on getting texts from my guy friend saying kiss him now, do it now..so i made out with him for like 10 seconds, then i went back to cuddling. is it so wrong to just want to cuddle? i don't understand what is wrong with me, why can't i bring myself to make out with him for a long time? (link)
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No, there's nothing wrong to want to just cuddle. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and have not kissed once. We both prefer "cuddling," just hugging, holding hands etc.
Some people like different things. Explain to your boyfriend that kissing him is nice, but you really feel wonderful and safe in his arms. That's how I feel when my boyfriend hugs me. So safe, warm, comforted, loved, cared for.. etc., etc., and plus, who doesn't like a hug?
It is a mutual understanding between my boyfriend and I that, while we love each other, and kissing has it's place, right now, that place is not within our relationship boundries. We love hugging each other. It is physical, but nothing that my parents wouldn't approve of.
I am a very physical person - as you are - but in a different way than your boyfriend is. Your boyfriend is physical = action. [Which is NOT a bad thing.] I am, and you probably also, are physical = attention, affection, comfort. Sure, it's great to know that someone likes / loves you, but it really is much better when their arms are around you, holding you tightly.
There is no reason you shouldn't kiss your boyfriend, and there is no reason you should feel pressured to kiss him. Don't let someone else tell you when it is a right time and a wrong time to kiss him. And besides... let your boyfriend initiate once in a while, eh? But don't pull away. He cuddles with you, you kiss him. That way you're both happy. :)
By the way, I saw King Kong with my dad [yeah, that was my "date"] and the graphics / special effects were INCREDIBLE. The water, dinosours, King Kong himself, the giant bugs... all spectacular. But the plot, in my opinion, was lacking a bit. There were places that I was just bored. But... I'm sure you weren't. [no offense. I just know that I wouldn't be bored if I were cuddling with my boyfriend.]
Talk and explain to your boyfriend. I'm sure he'll understand and be happy to cuddle with you as long as you're willing to kiss once in a while.
-FunnyCide
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Rating: 5
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thanks so much..you made me full so much better =]
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