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Ok well i like this kid a year older than me A LOT the problem is he has a gf well one weekend he begged me to come over but i couldnt now he wants me over this weekend well I know his gf and im not a slut so the best choice is to stay home right ?

Well it depends. Does he want you over just to hang out with you as a friend? Or does he think something else is going to happen? I say just hang out with him and if he wants something else to happen, you can always just tell him no and leave. And ask him if his girlfriend knows about this. She should know that you two are hanging out so she doesn't get the wrong idea. Better yet, maybe have her hang out with you two so then you and him can hang out also, but if he thought something was going to happen it can't now because she's there. It's your decision -- if you really feel you have to stay at home, then stay at home. I hope I helped.





Love,
Mel

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(Rating: 5) Thanks that helped the only problem about the whole hang with his gf too is that i havnt talked to her since 1st grade and i dont think she rembers me either
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