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so i skipped school and there was weed and alcohol im 13 female by the way..
and anyways.
i was good i didnt smoke because its disgusting.
and it was only 33% alcohol..
anyways my freinds turned out to not be freinds.
and so i was like.. im tired. then this guy goes oh here ill take you upstairs.. and show you where you can sleep.
so we went into the room yes we.. and he locked the door we were on his parents bed.
and he started making out with me.
hes 15.
and im like EWWWWWWWWWWW because he was so fugly.
and yeah he was on top of me..
then i stopped thinking omg what do i do.
then he took of his pants..
and started making out again..
and then he put my hand yeah you know.
and made me give him a handjob while makingout.
then he took of my pants.
And got on top of me.
and i pushed him of
and was like no!
im not going to have sex with you.
im a virgin.
and im afraid to have sex..
i didnt say that but yeah
and then hes like i love you.
suck my dick.
I KNOW ISNT THAT SO DUMB!
and im like no.
and hes like.
yes then you wont have to do anymore.
and im like NO.
i was thinking if i dont want to do anymore i wont do anymore.
and then he tried to have sex with me again.
i pushed him of.
and left to go get my twin brother and pretend i was at school.
what is this??
rape??
peer presure
im freaked out.
PLEASE HELP ME!
Well first of all good thing that you stood up for yourself. Some girls don't know what to do in a situation like that and they end up giving in because they're scared. And yes.. it's sexaul harassment and rape. Even though he did not have sex with you, rape is whenever someone is forcing you to participate in sexual acts whenever you do not want to. I would tell a parent or some adult that you trust what happened... they'll be able to help you out. If you present this in court, I don't know if there is much of a case where you'll win, but people will know what he did and then maybe he'll stop. You just need to tell someone what he did and get him punished for it because if you don't.. he might be going around doing this to other girls too, and other girls don't all have the power to stand up to him like you did. =/ I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
(Rating: 5) thanks!!