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K, I need help with 3 things actually:
1-I met this guy at a party, and at first I really didn't like him all that much, and I was really confused, and I seriously didn't know what I wanted, I was having a rough time with other things at the time... But then I decided, I liked the guy, and today he told me he likes this other girl and he doesn't like me at all... And I seriously don't know what to do, I'm just kind of tired of feeling hurt and let down by guys...
2-I also THINK I like this other guy, and I seriously think I could be really happy with him, but I don't know if he likes anyone, if he has a girlfriend, or if he'd even be interested in me "in that way".
3-I have this "friend"... and I stopped talking to her because we just didn't exactly feel the same about certain things... I thought we ended on good terms, but then I found out they have been saying REALLY mean things behind my back. Calling me fat and ugly and a bunch of other stuff. Which, from what she knows about me, is a seriously low blow. What should I do? Please help.
1- Well I would forget about this guy. I mean that's harsh telling some girl you don't like them like that at all. So he just sounds like a total jerk and a waste of your time.
2- Well even though your not sure how he likes you, try talkign to him some more. So at the same time, you'll both get to know eachother better. So he can see if he has feelings for you, and you can see if your "THINK" can turn to "KNOW". =]If you're too nervous to ask him who he likes and everything, try asking his friends or having your friends find out for you. =] But it's always best just to do it yourself. Shows confidence and it's just easier to do. =] And maybe you should tell him you kinda like him so then if he IS interested, he won't be afraid to tell you.
3- You should talk to your "friend" again. Ask her why she is sayign the things she's saying and you thought you guys left on good terms. Tell her you aren't sayign anything bad about her, and if she has a problem with you, she should talk to you about it.. not spread stupid rumors around because that solves nothing. She just might still be mad because you don't want to be her friend anymore and that's her way of getting "revenge".
I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much, you're so sweetie, I seriously appreciate it! =]