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I am sooo ugly. I mean I am 13 I weigh 210 and I am 5'8. I am built like a man and I don't wear skirts, dresses, or anything like that. My face is 'sorta' fat. My butt is flat. I can't wear my hair down cause its to fuzzy. The guy I like likes my best friend he even said she had a 'nice' a**. :'( I have streatch marks all over my arms and legs.... Should I just get rid of myself or live in misery? Please no smart a**es.
Aw sweetie. I'm sorry that you have to go through this. =/ It's horrible. I know how you feel & so do, so many other people. Please don't say, "rid yourself" you can't just give up that easily.
Seriously though, I bet you $9324392844.00 that you aren't ugly or any of those things that you just said. There are probably some awesome features about you. You just need to let them stick out more. (:
You don't have to live in misery either. If all of these things about yourself is bothering you. You need to try & change them. If it's what your weight that's bothering you, then maybe join a gym - run - dance - ride a bike. All those fun things.
If you can't wear your hair down because it's too frizzy, then try a shampoo & conditioner that won't make it so frizzy & maybe a straightner, too!
About the boy who you like. There'll be plenty more, as much as you'd like to tell yourself there won't, there will be. Just try not to set your hopes on one particular guy, because you never know what'll happen. If you don't think yourself as pretty, then no one else will. Besides, guys that compliment girls asses are retarded! He's not even worth it! You need to gain some self confidence in yourself girl.
Stand in front of a mirror & actually pick out things you like about yourself, if it's a big thing, like; your boobs! Or a small thing like your fingernails. That's a perfect way to start.
To lighten your stretchmarks try some lotions with cocoa butter. Fiddle with make up a little bit to see if it makes you feel better about yourself. I know when I wear make up it makes me feel a little bit prettier.
I lost a lot of weight, so I can definitely help you in that criteria. So, if you need tips & help just feel free to leave one in my box & I'll be willing to help. + If you ever need to talk. I'm ALWAYS here all the time. I'm the easiest person to talk to about things. And I know exactly what you're going through. =/
There's so much to life to be enjoying, just please don't get upset over these things, because I swear to you, it's not the most important thing in life. There's so much more.
(Rating: 5) ThankYou. If I could give a 10 Believe me I would. :(