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ok so i know this guy, and we dated for like 9 months. he was my first true love and i really was in love with him. but the timing was never right with us. it started out i was obsessed with him and he just "liked me".. then he became obsessed with me the less i liked him.. it ended when i completely lost all feelings toward him and treated him pretty bad. then i started treating him decent again, and he still liked me, but the feelings just werent there for me. he told me he needed to take time away from me and stop talking to me and hanging out with me b/c it was hard 4 him cuz he still liked him. now, he has another g/f.. thats just like how me and him were. now im starting to feel like i like him again..but i cant tell if its b/c hes the only guy i've REALLY ever cared about, and theres no one else, or if i actually do like HIM again... is it jealously and pain...or do i actually REALLY like HIM? i cant tell.. i need help please.. (link)
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Well, you may like him, but you are the only one who knows if you really like him, i can just help you try and sort your feelings out.
it sounds like you only want him because now you cant have him. that happens A LOT with people, when the feelings arent there.
and you may possibly be jealous, because the guy who liked you, likes someone else, and you miss that kind of attention and knowledge (i hope this doesnt sound "mean", i didnt mean it too if it does)
i think, by your question, this is what it probably is, if you still have the feelings after they break up, then im wrong, and you do like him. lol. but i honestly think its just a jealousy, wanting what you cant have type of thing.
hope i helped you out a little.
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thank you for your help... i was leaning towards that too... i think thats it... but thanks again. you did help a lot
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