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(15/f)Well my life is really hectic right now. Some things have happened recently that are really stressful for me...well i just havent been myself lately && my boyfriend has noticed it. Things arent the same like they used to be. Dont get me wrong i love him a lot but idk if i can handle a relationship anymore. All we do is fight now, and im just always moody now and he deserves way better than me. With everything going i just cant handle the whole bg/gf stress. Yes ive tried talking about it to him but he doesnt get it... I told him we were over last night (that was deff. the hardest thing ive ever done)...its just horrible that i had to do that because its like now all i feel is like sh**.. First i was just like "I have to do this" and now i feel like I need him more than anything. Weve been dating for 7 months, and its like i just blew it. He told me that if i did this that he was never gonna take me back && i did it, so i lost him :(. Idk what to do im so confused. And i cant take a break because those things never work out and besides he said he wont take me back anyway. Hes online right now and he nor I have imed each other. he was really hurt when i told him and he was seriously about to cry :(. Now all i can do it cry because i feel like such a low-life loser. I do love him but its just difficult, really really difficult...If anyone can help me out with this i would really appreciate it..xox
I would just IM him and explain to him everything you just said to me. About how everything's just really stressful for you at the moment and you guys are always fighting, and you don't want to do that to him anymore and tell him that you love him so much, but just don't want to make him go through that and you'd though it'd be best to end it, as much as it hurt you. Just let all your feelings out and try and possibly be friends with him. Cause he'll always be there whenever you need him then, but he won't be there in the boyfriend sense. You need to IM him and try talking to him. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
(Rating: 5) THANKS MELIIā„ your name is wicked cute btw.