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Is it normal to not be able to get over the guy you lost your virginity to? I lost mine to an asshole who completely used me as a bet and lied about how he was a virgin and "wanted to loose his virginity to me too" I can't get over him. It's making me depressed and I don't know if I'm overreacting or what?

It's completley normal. Girls always get attached to the guy they lost their virginity to I mean you lose your virginity to him. It shows how much you care about him and love him. Its a big thing to that with someone. This guy IS a total asshole. I mean I know he was your first and you care alot, but you just need to try to get over him. And find someone else who will love you back and care about you just as much as you care about them and won't use you as a bet and won't lie. =/ I'm sorry he did that. You are totally not overreacting. Just try not to think of him and try to focus on your friends and don't do anythign that reminds you of him and slowly but surely someday you'll forget all about him and you'll be happy, and he'll probably be miserable and alone. I hope I helped.






Love,
MELii

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