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To be honest A part of me doesnt want a boyfriend right now and another part does. Ive been going out with my bf for two years today.. I'm still young and my boyfriend is two years older. I dont realy know what to do or say right now but ive felt like crap today. Its hard to expalin..When he kisses, hugs me, or anything i dont feel butterflys or somthing special. But.. When this new kid that i just met yesterday (ive hung out with him all day the last two days) if i just think about him i get butterflys and i can feel my heart pounding...


Signed,
Confused



13/f

P.s The new kid is only a year older and is in my grade.. My bf is 15 1/2 and is in 9th..
hey...well ok i think that you and your b/f now have had a probably pretty good relationship; however maybe it just wasnt meant to be. I would break it off with him and move on. if you like this other guy that much better than your b/f, somethings not right about that. so be a g/f to the guy who you like the most...(new kid most likely;)
xoxohelpachick

I broke up with my boyfriend firday and hes taking it horriblyHes a awsome guy but between the two year diffrence and so much more hes so broing. He doesnt dance anything but slow and he doesnt do any sports. The new kid dances exreamly well, will sing (not good but not bad.. its kinda cute), and is a great sport player. Hes also in my grade and is only a year older which i like. I kinda want to take it slow and maybe go to the dance with him next month and maybe go to a game or somthing together.. I'm realy not sure.. the only problem is my exboyfrined is too attached. he called me twice yesterday and next week wants to me go to a hockey game with him and also he wants me to go to a powderpuff football game with him on Tuesday which i dont realy want to do because i will feel really acward around his parents.. I dont realy feel like explainging to evreyone monday why i broke up with him (exept my friends) because i dont realy belive its anyones buisness that and then rummers start..

--Meg--


Thank you so much for the time and im sorry i wrote a long feedback, acualy your the only one i wrote feedback too. Some reason you helped me the most.. well i g2g cya!

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hey im helpachick & i want to help you if i can. more than most of the questions i answer i have experienced something close to that myself. so feel free to ask&leave stuff in my inbox or whatever, and i'll try to get back soonish.

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I'm in college majoring in Fashion Textiles and Merchandising. I love fashion, boys, my friends, music, and love being active and outdoors. theres a lot more i could put about me but this is advicenators not myspace!!
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