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I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
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I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
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I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
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I've been through more than I should.
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Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


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I'm so screwed. I haven't missed my period yet, I'm due for it Friday, but my friend is bringing me a pregnancy test tomorrow. I had sex without a condom, and my boyfriend pulled out but I'm still paranoid about it, and yes I know I have a good reason to be.

Anyways...I'm going to take a pregnancy test Saturday. I think I will be with my boyfriend when I do it. What I want to know is how do I tell my parents and what should I do? I'm so scared right now I'm crying...my parents have always known me as their good little girl that never did anything wrong. I feel like dying.

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Well, don't freak out just yet. Because if you start freaking out now, it will cause stress and the stress will delay your period. You don't know that you are pregnant.


Yes there is a chance that you could be, but I'm letting you know right now it isn't a very high one.


But seriously for now you REALLY need to calm down. Wait until Friday and see if you get your period. If you don't get it then, then you can take the pregnancy test.


Pregnancy tests can also be done before your missed period.


You really need to try to calm down, the more you stress, the later your period comes.


I doubt you are pregnant, so you really really really need to calm down for the sake of having your parents want to kill you themselves.


But, since I doubt you are pregnant, for future no matter how bad you want to, no matter how bad you're tempted DO NOT have sex without a condom if you know you can't handle the consequenses.


I'm not going to tell you what to tell your parents, because that's not something to worry about YET.


Have your friends buy you two tests. Take one tomorrow when she gives it to you and then take another on Saturday or Sunday. You could even wait as long as Monday.


I will tell you this over and over again until I turn blue but you NEED to calm down. Again, you do NOT know if you are pregnant or not so by freaking out and thinking you are isn't going to help you any.


I've been in this situation before so I know how you feel. And I'm telling you if you just take a hot shower and RELAX you'll feel better. I was two weeks late for my period. I was positive I was pregnant at that point. But I was so freaked out and that's why my period was so late.



For the love of GOD sweetie, CHILL THE EFF OUT! I know I sound extremely repetitive, but you SHOULD NOT be freaking out.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, your advice really helped out. I might take one tonight, no one's home right now but I don't know, if the results don't show up now because I haven't missed my period yet, I don't have the money for another test. If you want to IM me at blondstbrunete34 I would really love to chat.

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