MELiixMARiiE's advice column

Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering about something...
I know its normal and not exactly their fault and everything, but when a girl goes through monthly stuff, what are we, the guys, supposed to do. I really don't mind it, but sometimes I feel like I need to help out my g/f with whatever the problem may be...but I can't. Should I just be there to talk and listen? That's what I've been doing so far. I mean I can't think of any good advice other than lie down, take some medicine, try to relax, and stuff like that. Should I try to help, or just stay out of the way? Is there any way I can help or no? I know I don't or ever will understand what it feels like or anything, but I'd still try to help with anything. Will rate, thanks in advance.

Okay well when it comes to girls and the "monthly stuff", it sounds like you've got the good idea. It's nice that you wanna help her out and stuff, but really just sit there and like you said talk to her and listen to her and everything. If she ever spazzes out at you over a stupid thing, don't mind it, don't go off spazzing back at her. It's just she's moody. I snap at people sometimes. Anyways, ask her if maybe.. she wants anything. Chocolates always good, haha. I always crave chocolate and greasy foods. So maybe take her out to eat or something and just.. talk or something. I hope I've helped you out with "the monthly stuff" haha.

Love,
MELii

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(Rating: 5) thanks mel, btw u give good advice - keep it up

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