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i have been having a really hard time understanding my bf right now. first off i barely have talk to him all week. we are in a long distance realtionship so i barely get to see him. on friday he was supposed to meet up with me and go to the haunted house and then his place to meet his mom but it never happened. he said he got in trouble because of last time adn he couldnt leave the house. i understood and said it was cool but yesterday when i called his mom said he wasnt home. today i talked to him for 5 minutes. he told me he was out in downtown were i live but he wouldnt tell me were or who he was with. all he told me was that he didnt come home until 3 a.m. then he had the nerve to tell me about a girl that was bendin over infront of him wearin a short maid costum. (someoen tell me why you would tell ur gf that?) but for the best couple days since i havent talked to him he has been askin me if i still want to be with him and if i trust him. i trust him and all but i think he takin advantage of me. everytime i try tellin him how i feel it always ends up him tellin me about some bitch and get annoying. what should i do? o yea tomorrow my best friend invited him to her house becaus ei am goin to go but he isnt goin (his excuse i dont want the bus take me the wrong place and he always rides the busy and he knows were he is going) can someone please tell me what is up? and help me.
p.s
i am a 14/f and he is a 16/m
I would pull him aside some day or call him or something but just talk to him and straight out ask him whats going on. Because it sounds to me like he's cheating on you. Sitting there talking about girls to you and then asking if you still want to be with him adn trust him? Yeah it sounds to me like he feels guilty and wants to know you still like him. But this is just my opinion. I would seriously pull him over to talk before you make an accusations like that. Ask him why he's always making excuses and lying and stuff. It sounds to me like he doesn't sound as interested in you as you are in him, and you shouldn't be with someone like that. You should be with someone just as ( or more ) interested in you as you are them. So yeah.. have a serious talk with him =/ I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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