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i have been having a really hard time understanding my bf right now. first off i barely have talk to him all week. we are in a long distance realtionship so i barely get to see him. on friday he was supposed to meet up with me and go to the haunted house and then his place to meet his mom but it never happened. he said he got in trouble because of last time adn he couldnt leave the house. i understood and said it was cool but yesterday when i called his mom said he wasnt home. today i talked to him for 5 minutes. he told me he was out in downtown were i live but he wouldnt tell me were or who he was with. all he told me was that he didnt come home until 3 a.m. then he had the nerve to tell me about a girl that was bendin over infront of him wearin a short maid costum. (someoen tell me why you would tell ur gf that?) but for the best couple days since i havent talked to him he has been askin me if i still want to be with him and if i trust him. i trust him and all but i think he takin advantage of me. everytime i try tellin him how i feel it always ends up him tellin me about some bitch and get annoying. what should i do? o yea tomorrow my best friend invited him to her house becaus ei am goin to go but he isnt goin (his excuse i dont want the bus take me the wrong place and he always rides the busy and he knows were he is going) can someone please tell me what is up? and help me.
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i am a 14/f and he is a 16/m
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I would pull him aside some day or call him or something but just talk to him and straight out ask him whats going on. Because it sounds to me like he's cheating on you. Sitting there talking about girls to you and then asking if you still want to be with him adn trust him? Yeah it sounds to me like he feels guilty and wants to know you still like him. But this is just my opinion. I would seriously pull him over to talk before you make an accusations like that. Ask him why he's always making excuses and lying and stuff. It sounds to me like he doesn't sound as interested in you as you are in him, and you shouldn't be with someone like that. You should be with someone just as ( or more ) interested in you as you are them. So yeah.. have a serious talk with him =/ I hope I helped!
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MELii
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Ask him about him. Pull him over aside and tell him you need to talk, over the phone, online, in person, whatever. First start off by telling him how you feel about the past few events...pretty much what you wrote there.
You should definatley make a move to at least see if he is worth it or not. If he still has feelings for you and wants to be with you and you make the mistake of trying to find out if he is or not, then that can be forgiven. However, if he is trying to get ride of you or walk all over you, don't let that happen - its never fun and both of you will get hurt. Talk to him to see if he does like you and wants to be with you and all of that. No offence, but you might not be the right one for him, or vice versa, him not be the right one for you. Don't try to change anything about him, just set things straight and tell him that if he wants to keep things going, he has to do his part and maybe be a bit more loyal.
Personally, although I may be wrong, it seems like he isn't as interested as you are in him. He might just be interested in you and just want more than that. Whatever the case may be, its up to you to make a move, talk to him, and find out how he feels about you and everything else, and at the same time let him know so then you can plan out what you are to do next - stay with him or put a stop to everything. I suggest you talk to him as soon as possible and make sure you have his complete attention. I hope that helped, good luck.
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Well thats stupid of him. He asked you if you trust him because he would probably quit telling you about all those girls if you didnt. This can mean only one thing, Hes cheating and doesent want you to know. Ive heard that long distance relationships dont work out and now i know it.
If I were in your shoes, I would dump his sorry butt. he is probably making up excuses so he can have sex with another girl! He wasted his relationship with someone his future could be with. This guy sounds like a total *ss >:-[
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You need to dump this guy. I know that sounds hard to do, but he isn't being respectful to you at all. Hes giving you excuses non stop, telling you about girls sexually, and he lives away from you. This sounds like the end. The sign that should tell you that its time to end it is that he wouldn't tell you about who he was with and where, and that you both get into an arguement when you are upset over this whole thing that hes pulling. This is truly what you need to do, no more pouring your heart out, say goodbye and dump him.
-TheTeenGirl
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