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ok well I am talking to a really good friend of mine and he is 19 we talk on the phone and he works at a fancy constrution place...well my dad asked who he was and I told him but I met him on the internet and we talk on the phone about 2 times a day...my dad is strick to who I talk to...and how old they have to be...WHY??? he is 19 and I am 16!!!! but I did something I think was wrong, I told my dad he was 17 insteed of his true age 19...and he said for me to be careful to who I talk to ... well my sister told them his true age and my mom got on to me right after I got off the phone with him.....what do I do???? and why dont they want me to talk to a guy that is 19???
PLEASE HELP
-BlondeChic163- (link)
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Your parents are more thank likely trying to protect you. They aren't trying to keep you from having fun or meeting new people - they're just trying to protect you.
Face it, he's nineteen, you're sixteen. Although that's only three years, that's a fair maturity gap. Unless you're really mature for your age (or he's immature), it's unlikely that you'll get along for extended periods of time. Not only that, he's considered an adult now - you're still a minor. It's illegal for you to be in a sexual relationship with him until you're eighteen.
You also met him online. You can't know for sure that he's nineteen. He could be 25 and sound young, or could be 15 and sound old. There's no way to really know. Unless you've seen this "fancy construction place" he works at, you don't really know if he works at it or at Mc Donalds. There's just really no way to tell, and your parents realize this. They're just trying to protect you, your innocence, and your heart.
Honor your parents decision, but maybe you could get them to meet this boy (if you think he's worth it). That would mean he'd have to come to your house, blah, blah, blah. But if he's worth it - you should get your parents to see that.
-FunnyCide
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