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Q: There's a girl that I've liked for about 2 months. She's just about my perfect girl, but had been going out with this guy since I met her. I gave up on her about 2 weeks ago cuz he friends said she always has really long relationships. I moved on to this other girl and her and I hit it off. I told the 2nd girl that I like her today, and she said she liked me too. But not 10 minutes after that I found out the first girl was finally single. I think I might like the first girl more, but now it's like the 2nd girl expects her and I to go out. What should I do? Which one should I pick? And how do I not make myself look like an asshole either way? I'll rate high for good answers.
hey! alright well i'm a girl, and i think a girls point of view on this question could be very helpful!! well if girl 1 (the girl you liked first) if her boyfriend broke up with her, she is obviously going to need some time to get over him. (she most likely liked him a lot since they went out for a long time) so while that is happening, maybe since you already told this other girl you like her, go out with her for a little while...see how things go and you might find that you really do like her as a g/f. if you still think that the first girl is the one for right now, after a while break things off with girl 2 and then ask the first girl. make sure the 1 girl has had enough time, and that you have CLEARLY made your decision on the two ladies. good luck xoxohelpachick

Thanks, I'll keep it in mind

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hey im helpachick & i want to help you if i can. more than most of the questions i answer i have experienced something close to that myself. so feel free to ask&leave stuff in my inbox or whatever, and i'll try to get back soonish.

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I'm in college majoring in Fashion Textiles and Merchandising. I love fashion, boys, my friends, music, and love being active and outdoors. theres a lot more i could put about me but this is advicenators not myspace!!
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